Getting Over The Online Talking Tone

What in the world are we talking about when we say online talking tone?  What we mean by this is the way that you percieve someone sounds by reading their e-mails and electronic messages.  When you read an e-mail or a text message, your mind associates a voice and the way it sounds when you read it, as if the voice you make up is reading it to you.  This type of made up tone that your brain automatically makes up for you, can be totally off from what that person sounds like in real life.  Often times, when people meet in person or talk on the phone, there is an unusual lack of connection because both of you interpreted the e-mails as making you both sound different than how you really sound.  So what can you do to get over this?

The solution is simple, by simply talking to each other with your voices…. alot.  The more you talk to that person, the easier it is for your mind to replace the made up voice with their real voice when they start writing you  e-mails and as you continue to correspond via the internet.  This will make the transition from the made up voice to their real voice quick and easy.  If you cant talk to the person on a date or in person because of distance,  use the phone.  If the phone bills start adding up, start using a free voip service like Skype.  Heck, with Skype you can even look at their face while they are talking to you with a microphone and web cam all for free right in the comfort of your own home. 

No matter how you do it, the only way to get over this weird transition is by using your voice and talking to them.  This will make online dating much more enjoyable and allow you to get to know that person on a very different level than just being their electonic reader.  Start making a difference with your online communication by using your actual voice, trust us, it will work!