Grab That Hand!

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One of the most solid pieces of dating advice that we could ever give a person that is asking out a person they don’t know on a date is to utilize the technique of holding hands. It may sound very elementary to you, but the fact is that most women are hoping that it happens.  Why is this?

Women want a man that is affectionate with them and that values them.  The best way for a woman to know that a man appreciates her and values her is through personal touch.  By touching, like holding hands, a man and woman will be able to get off on the right foot and show each other that they care about each other.  With that being said, there is a right and wrong way to hold a person’s hand.  Let’s go over these two methods.

The right way to hold a persons hand is to first of all get  read on how the date is going.  If the date is  not into you at all, don’t even attempt it, but if the date is going well and she is being flirty, GO FOR IT!  The easiest way to do this is to gradually just grab the hand while walking or to introduce the hand, use it to help her sit down or get up.  This will give you a spark that will make it more natural to start holding her hand.

Don’t force it.  If you go for a hand hold, and it doesn’t happen, just give up and let her initiate it from then on out.  People don’t hand to be forced to hold hands, and trying too hard will make you look like a fool.  The best advice is to make sure you have a good read on your date, and then go for it.  If she doesn’t want to, its ok and just let her make the move from there on out.