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How To Find That Spark

Dating is often times a game of cat and mouse for many people.  There is always the mouse that totally teases the cat, but doesn’t want to get caught without a fight.  Well while it may sound silly to describe it that way, it is very true and accurate as far as how people really act when they start dating.  The girl is usually the mouse in this analogy and the cat sometimes doesn’t know if there is that spark of interest in order to start the chase.  So how do you know if that spark is really there to start chasing after that girl or guy?

The first thing to understand is that there are two different kinds of sparks. The first spark in dating is that primal attractiveness spark.  Do you find the person attractive?  Do you find yourself drawn to them physically?  This spark must be there before the second type of spark can ignite.  The second spark is to be attracted to them mentally.  Do you always think about that person when you are not around them?  If all you can do is think about these people when you are away from them, you know that you have the second spark.  Now that we have gone over the two different types of attraction sparks, how do you know if they have the sparks too?

The easiest way is to let things happen naturally when it comes to the first spark.  Do they have physical contact with you and are they giving you signs such as holding your hand or kissing? Once these signs have naturally happened, one of the best ways to determine whether the second type of information has been put into place is by communicating.  Straight out ask them if they think about you or wonder how you are doing when you are away.  With understanding these types of attractions, you will be better prepared to find that special someone who can lighten your life and make your life whole!